How to have great gay sex
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will consider bottoming at some time. However, the thought of doing it for the first age can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse play like fisting or with grand dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can get douche bulbs online or from any wonderful sex shop. Aim not to proceed overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can form you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay enjoy rimming or fingering. Some men act use amyl nitrate (poppers) to unbend the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased risk of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs appreciate Viagra and may cause a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to unwind and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, whethe
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Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a defended and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to know that you can endeavor new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who crave to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
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1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious
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The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering other gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t concern. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ people, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve lay together an ever-growing list of Homosexual terminology.
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1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to block damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to assist protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you touch safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good companion and you can’t exposure pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).